“The Light We Don’t Withhold” is a Church of Tinkerbell reflection for HIV/AIDS Awareness Month, honoring those living with HIV, remembering those we’ve lost, and confronting the deadly cost of stigma. Grounded in science and radical compassion, it lifts up the truth of U=U, calls for equitable access to care, and invites us to practice a quiet rebellion: kindness without conditions, and light we refuse to keep to ourselves.
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Porn with Purpose
An honest and thoughtful guide to porn use that ditches the shame and explores how ethical, mindful consumption can support self-discovery, emotional well-being, and healthy relationships.
Read MorePorn with Purpose: How Ethical, Mindful Use Can Enhance Your Life
An honest and thoughtful guide to porn use that ditches the shame and explores how ethical, mindful consumption can support self-discovery, emotional well-being, and healthy relationships.
Read MoreHealing Shame: Body Positivity and Responses to Nudity
In this episode, we dive into the deep impact of growing up in a body-shaming, …
Read MoreHealing from Shame: How Body-Positive Culture Can Help Undo Over-Sexualized Responses to Nudity
In this post, we dive into the deep impact of growing up in a body-shaming, purity-driven culture—and how those early messages shape our inner responses to nudity and sexuality. We explore how cultures like the Netherlands and Scandinavia approach the body with openness and respect, and what we can learn from them. Most importantly, we walk through practical, compassionate steps for healing from shame, unlearning over-sexualized reactions, and reclaiming a sense of safety and joy in our own skin. Whether you’re deconstructing purity culture, healing from trauma, or simply curious about body positivity, this episode offers insight, tools, and hope.
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